Chapter 9, Family.  I am from a big family, 9 brothers and sisters, 33+ nephews and nieces and 'great' nephews and nieces. I've spent my youth up to age 25 around massive amounts of love, life, and family - changing diapers at the age of 6 on.... and attribute my comfort with people to these experiences.  But I see I have broken every rule Nancy recommends and that is staying in close proximity to family, having meals with family, helping family when in need and making my community and family one - how about you?